The circle of life….

This past month of January, I have been reflecting on events in our tribe during 2014. The biggest event was the loss our beloved smart, beautiful Carla Rose in June. It was Carla who instantly took to the job of nanny to Sadie when she arrived from China…checking in on her whenever she stirred during the night….Sweetly waking her in the morning…Sadie’s guardian and best friend during the day. It was a job Carla relished to her last breath.

 In the most difficult photo I have ever taken, Sadie says a final goodbye to Carla Rose....

In the most difficult photo I have ever taken, Sadie says a final goodbye to Carla Rose….

Happier times..."Girl Talk"

Happier times…”Girl Talk”

Carla Rose.....Always a pretty girl.

Carla Rose…..Always a pretty girl.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The other big event, was welcoming new life into our tribe with rescue puppy Rosie……..

New life springs hope eternal…Welcome to our home little Rosie…

New life springs hope eternal…Welcome to our home little Rosie…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

….And old Tiger marched onto his 18th Birthday in remarkable health. But we know at his age, things can change quickly. We enjoy each and every day with the kindly old gentleman

 Tiger (R) relaxes with Ruby on the deck this past Fall. Never had a dog so old and so healthy

Tiger (R) relaxes with Ruby on the deck this past Fall. Never had a dog so old and so healthy

 

 

A furry little life changes the world…….

…..Our friend “Jane” is 40 something. Never had a dog…..not as a child…not as an adult. She never married, never had a child. She always admired our Tribe and had her favorites. But her?… own a dog?…Her life was far too busy and they would tie her down. But something happened a few months back….I guess the fancy vacations and super duper cruises lost their luster…..Something was missing. Given “Jane’s” experience with our Tribe being rescues, that’s the route she went. A rescue! Clearly being a first time dog owner, adopting a Pittie or Rottie seemed too daunting. But at last she came home with this little handsome man! All this from a woman who is the most scrupulously clean, tidy, organized house keeper I can think of.To her credit, “Jane” adapted to the refreshing winds of change in the form of a little furry, loving little being that now shares her life. As she said at training class last night, “I wouldn’t give him up for the world. I just love him so!”…But, she’s not the only one in her family that has had a change of heart. Her Dad who thought she should not get a dog is crazy about the handsome little mug! I needed to hear that story….I needed to write it. PS: I think he looks a bit like a miniature version of our Sugar!

Little life....Big difference

Little life….Big difference

….And Baby Makes Nine!

From the very start, Tiger was Grandpa to sadie

From the very start, Tiger was Grandpa to sadie

“You’re adopting a what!? Are you sure? I mean, at your
age . . . it’s . . . well, what about the dogs? You’re going to have to get
rid of some!” Our friend never did hold back her opinions.
The October 2007 announcement of our soon-to-arrive daughter
from China proved to be no barrier to her giving us both barrels.
Lynn and I had actually started the paperwork a couple of
years before. We started to tell those closest to us that we planned
to adopt, but before we could finish they’d interrupt with, “What
kind? Do you truly need another dog?” After hearing the rest of
our story, the reaction was somewhat more subdued: “Really? Gee.
Really?” In the interim some friends either forgot about our plans,
thinking them far into the future, or more likely thought we would
abandon our intentions altogether, seeing the light at our age.

The announcement that Lynn would be leaving for China within
a few months to pick up two-year-old Sadie Marie sent shock waves
through our network of friends, though nothing so overt as little
miss sunshine’s warm, fuzzy concern about our age and the dogs.

There was a definite cooling from those we expected it least . . . just
small things they said, questions asked and a distinct lack of enthusiasm
for the blessed event unfolding. But no doubt about it, their concern
was the same as our razor-tongued friend. We in turn were
saddened.

In truth, Lynn had fears. “What if Sadie was terrified of the
dogs?” “What if the dogs didn’t like Sadie?” “A new member,
forced into the pack, I just don’t know.” From my perspective, the
main concern was if Sadie had allergies. Either way, getting rid of
the furry side of the family was out of the question.
Getting the pack to accept her was a non-issue for me, having
done it with my older daughter Tracy many years before. My
practice had been then, as it was now, the same. There would be no
screeching and kicking at the dog(s) to get away when first bringing
home the baby. This was vital. You’re sure to foster resentment if
you do! We would not shove the baby in their faces. This was just
as important. We would not discourage gentle curiosity, but make
them feel part of something special and wonderful, and this would
garner positive results. Giving them a job to help put the little one
to bed or feed baby was great. A slow, commonsense approach to
physically introducing the new child and the pack to each other was
best. All the time and effort we put into blending the family paid big
dividends and was worth every minute. But all of that was a couple
of months ahead of us.For the moment, we had to deal with others’ (including some
family members’) anxiety.

There were those who felt we were committing
something tantamount to child abuse by throwing an innocent
toddler into a pack of dogs with unpredictable results. “Gee!
Sure appreciate the kind words. We’re so glad you have faith that we
might kinda know what we are doing!” Admittedly, that negative
remark came from outside our circle of friends. They also were not
dog people. They really didn’t know us, know our furry kids, and
certainly didn’t know Sadie. None of us knew Sadie yet. If we had,
any worries would have turned to dust….
(The rest of this chapter can be found in “Ruby’s Tale”)

Now 17 years old Tiger still watches over 8 year old Sadie

Now 17 years old Tiger still watches over 8 year old Sadie

Carla the Rottie immediately took the roll of Nanny...Check on little Sadie seververal time a night or whenever she fussed. She was Sadie's shadow. heartbreakingly, Carla is in the last stages of her life...

Carla the Rottie immediately took the roll of Nanny…Checking on little Sadie several times a night or whenever she fussed. She was Sadie’s shadow. Heartbreakingly, Carla is in the last stages of her life…

When we adopted Sadie, we took the optional "Child Protection Package"

When we adopted Sadie, we took the optional “Child Protection Package”

Sadie.... just part of our pack, or "Tribe" as we are known.

Sadie…. just part of our pack, or “Tribe” as we are known.

And now, the final two…..

As we continue to share our furry family members, these two characters complete the “Tribe” as we are called….That nickname goes back a ways. I’m still a little fuzzy on how it got started, but someone compared us to the tribes on the television show “Survivor”. Anyway, meet Sugar and Blue…..

Sugar (rescued Pit Bull/Boxer mix, 2009- )
Our newest and youngest tribe member has her own chapter, so I won’t share a lot here except to say she has been a mostly hilarious addition to our family. Sugar has her own distinct personality to be sure. From those crazy ears, goofy teeth and gorilla eyes, to her involvement in everything in this big wonderful world, and the funny sound she makes when she’s excited—kind of a “ffffitt”— Sugar keeps us human members of the tribe well entertained. The other canines? . . . They’ve done a great job of putting up with her youthful exuberance. Us humans? You just can’t stay mad at that face!
Oh, there have been times when she’s earned our displeasure, mostly when she has attempted to rise to Alpha position. Not only Ruby, but the other dogs take a dim view of this. And Sugar quickly discovered Ruby has other, higher ranking allies. Lynn and Me!
While, she has been slower to mature and find her wisdom than Ruby did, Sugar possesses deep intelligence and is doing exceptionally well in obedience classes. In some things, she does far better than the Rubster. Then there are her eyes that so often have the expression of working an angle, figuring things out. You dog owners know what I mean. Her skills with people and other dogs are exquisite.
Someday Sugar will carry the torch for Ruby, but in the meantime there is much to learn from the master. . . We’ll soon share Sugar’s unique rescue and most interesting attempt to adopt her out.

Never can stay mad at Sugar more than a few moments... Luckily, she's a good dog.

Never can stay mad at Sugar more than a few moments… Luckily, she’s a good dog.

Blue is a first rate snuggling couch potato. He doesn't like to put out too much effort for fear of losing weight.

Blue is a first rate snuggling couch potato. He doesn’t like to put out too much effort for fear of losing weight.

Blue (rescued Pit Bull, 2007- )
Brrringgg! I answered the phone.
“Pat? It’s Dana From Rescued Tales.” Her speech picked up speed so I would not have a chance to say no before she finished. . . . “I have a Boy that really needs a good foster home. He sounds like a perfect fit for you guys—loves kids, other dogs and is super calm and laid back and is a real snuggler. He comes from a city that has breed specific legislation (BSL) and is a surrender. Blue is his real name, he’s between 5 and 7 years old, and he needs to get out of there now! When I heard about what a good boy he is, I thought of you and Lynn right away.”

Hmmm, this would not be the first dog Dana has talked us into fostering or adopting. Ruby comes to mind, for instance. I told her I would check with Lynn and get back to her. Within five minutes I had an answer. Lynn had readily said yes, but this time positively only as a foster.
Blue came in from another state, so we met the transporter about an hour’s drive from our house. The driver helped him down out of his crate – what a sight to behold! Sure, he was happy, cheerful, gentlemanly, and certainly laid back; but it was his physical appearance that took us by surprise. We had seen pictures, but they did nothing to prepare us for meeting him in the flesh . . . errr . . . fur. He was STOUT! Massive muscles through the shoulders, back, chest and neck. Blue’s head was approaching the size of a bowling ball. He was wide. . . You could land an f-14 on that back for crying out loud! Yet his legs were ridiculously short. They sort of looked like little thick pegs. Blue was both imposing and a cartoon character. We were in awe and giggled at the same time as Sadie piped up “He’s put together like the Tasmanian Devil on TV!” That pretty much summed it up. Except, that he was also one of the kindest, sweetest dogs I had ever met. We understood that losing their family and being thrown into a facility is traumatic for a dog; and many times their full personality doesn’t come out for weeks or even months. But there was something about this boy that told us what we were seeing was what we were getting. I mean fostering.
As with Tiger many years before, Lynn’s eyes washed over Blue again and again, surveying every movement, every nuance. She spoke first. “I think we should keep him.” Yikes! I nearly snapped my neck to look over at Lynn. She wanted a rescued Rottie as our next dog, and besides we weren’t quite ready. Unbelievably, uncharacteristically of me, I was the one who back-pedaled on keeping him! . . . At least for a little while. He seemed to be relatively well cared for; most certainly, Blue was well fed. Although he was brought in with fleas and some fractured teeth, it appeared that he wasn’t physically abused.

Each day brought a delight and a surprise. The lovable lug was beautifully crate-trained, house-broken, trained to go potty while on a leash and comes immediately when called . . . a great help when traveling! He loved riding in the car and cut quite a figure peering out the window of the back seat, looking every bit the school boy. His kind, sweet personality shines through and that calm, steady demeanor makes him a joy to be around. An odd thing, Blue is camera shy, or simply doesn’t like them. If he is outdoors and something has his attention, no problem, I can snap away. Indoors is another matter. He will turn his back to me every time he spots a camera in my hand. The other evening as Lynn was sitting on the floor with Mr. ‘Stubby’, she called out to me in another room—“Bring the camera quick!” The second I entered the area, Blue got up with a heavy sigh and left the room. When I left, he returned immediately but kept a watchful eye out for this Paparazzi. I don’t know what his living conditions were, but Blue seems amazed at the world around him as he studies everything so carefully with a soft curiosity. Not one of the other Tribe members felt threatened by the big gentle soul, but still, Blue would live in the ‘Penthouse’, a finished-off room above the garage until his slow transition into our house with the “Tribe” was complete. That transition only took about two weeks, and it was a done deal. Blue had become part of us. He wasn’t going anywhere. Welcome home Mr. Blue. But there is more . . . the backstory of his being saved twice. It’s a story worth re-telling.

We’ve already established Blue was spirited out of a city that had laws against owning his breed. The Humane Society that temporarily took in Blue had to find him a good, safe, loving home. If it weren’t for the employees of that organization, poor Blue might well have met a fate far worse than death by a needle.
Just a few days before we agreed to foster the big boy, a small group of some ‘very unsavory’ types came in to adopt him. Judging by their blatant conversation about Blue’s future, a nervous, but brave employee refused to adopt him out. They left, but as the employees watched through the window, they observed the group of young men that just tried to get Blue talking to their buddies in the parking lot. The second bunch came in and they were just as unsavory; and her answer was the same . . . No dice! Now everyone left. But they weren’t finished. They returned later that day, and this time they numbered fifteen by her count. They tried to intimidate, bully and cajole her into giving up Blue. It speaks volumes about her integrity and courage that she stood her ground and refused to budge. When they left, the employee immediately had our future family member locked in a special room where just a select few had the key. Blue was on his way home . . . to our home.
So there you have it—our tribe, our pack, our furry family. We have no illusions. Most of our tribe is rapidly aging and we are bracing ourselves for the dramatic changes that will and must come with the passage of time. It won’t make it any easier. We have lost entire families over the years before and know well the terrible, empty pain . . . the hollow feeling in the heart. If you’ve ever loved a pet, you know exactly what I mean.
In the end, it will have been a pleasure to know each one of them and an honor that we were able to share their lives. . . .

Time to meet another furry family member….

Molly (Rescue Pit Bull/Black Lab, 2007 – )
Molly was the youngest member of our “tribe,” as some of our
family and friends affectionately called us. She was the unintended,
unexpected, unprepared for, unwanted adoption. Lynn and I had
never held up our work with Pitties and Rotties for all to see. We
never had a public campaign to say, “Bring us your down-trodden,
your poor, your hungry, your huddled shivering, flea-infested, abused
dogs.” People just seemed to have heard about us.
Molly was found by a couple, not far from their home in St.
Paul. About six to eight months old, she was tied to a fence, her
collar so tight she could hardly breathe. This couple happened to
go to the same training school as Lynn and I. They didn’t know us
personally, but our reputation was at work. Word on the street was
“Oh yes, Pat and Lynn will take any dog of those breeds [Rotties
and Pitties]. They’ll say no at first but just work ’em over awhile and
voila — the dog is no longer your burden.”
These temporary keepers of Molly called us after sneakily
obtaining our unlisted phone number. They pleaded her case . . . how
they had found her . . . what a nice but somewhat timid girl she
was . . . and so very cute! They would absolutely keep her except their
dogs didn’t like her. Taking Molly to the shelter wasn’t an option.
Being a black dog, there was not much hope of adoption, and most
likely she would be put down. “We know you have class tonight.
Could you just take a peek at her?”
This time, both Lynn and I dug in our heels. Yes, we would take
a peek, no we would not take the dog home! Arriving at the school
a little early, we met the dog we said no to. They were right: She was
cute. Molly was all black with a nice, white blaze from under the
chin spilling down her chest with feet that seemed too big. Pit bull
feet are compact and look like bulldog feet, which also look like
boxer feet. These were large, webbed black Lab feet. I thought out
loud. “She ought to do well in snow. Sort of a doggie version of a
snowshoe hare!”
The comment was met with faint smiles and half-hearted nods.
Ignoring my poke at humor, the “Molly keepers” moved in for the
coupe de grace and opened up a rapid-fire barrage. “She has her
first set of shots. We’ve got a big bag of high-quality dog food and
a really nice new toy. She’s very smart. We can’t keep her. Nobody
wants her. We don’t want her to die.”
Whew! The attack left me swaying like a punch-drunk pugilist.
I looked up at Lynn. She walked away stiff legged, knowing what
was about to happen.
Then the couple, like car salesmen sensing a deal was at hand,
threw something else into the pot that they hoped would be the
clincher. “We’ll for sure help find her a permanent home. Molly
just can’t stay with us. Right now she’s living in the dark, unheated
garage, and it’s getting cold!”
That did it! I thought of our family snug in our beds at night.
Now if I said no, Molly’s shivering little face would appear in front
of me every night, every day, every time I . . . Oh hell! All the time!
All right. Okay, you can stop now. I’ll take the dog!
“Great! Your dogs don’t know Molly, so after class we’ll follow
you home. Oh! By the way, she gets car sick.” It was a long ride
home with Lynn. The only words spoken eluded to my mental condition,
the fact that she was going to China next month to pick up our
adoptive daughter, Sadie, and we did not need this, this thing! Then
followed the dreaded silence. I deserved her prolonged significant
anger. I admit — I was a sap, a sucker, a sentimental fool, prone to do
such inconsiderate things. When Lynn left for China, I tried to make
up for my indiscretion by deep-cleaning and reorganizing the house.
The result was that Lynn could not find things in a nice, clean house
when she returned. She did appreciate my efforts, though.
In the meantime, Dr. Rice, our veterinarian who was familiar
with our mom-and-pop rescue efforts, donated his services to spay
Molly. Getting her rescue dog discount, she started her beginner
obedience classes at Total Recall. Because we already had Carla
and Ruby in intermediate training, Molly was handled by Kathy,
a good friend with a lot of experience. Molly was smart, learning
everything quickly. She excelled at heeling and recalls. Her downfalls
were jumping happily up on people or a loud, annoying whining
when there was a lull in the class. These were two items that
needed extra attention. And then a disaster demonstrated that we
needed to redouble our efforts to curb that jumping. Kathy came to
class dressed for comfort in a nice comfy sweatshirt and sweatpants.
Comfort was always a good idea. One evening at a most inopportune
moment during class, Molly jumped on Kathy as if to say, “Hey!
Am I doing okay?” Her paws caught inside the pants pockets. Kathy
commanded, “OFF!” Molly retreated downward, taking the pants
partially down with her.
Since Molly joined our family, she has been a wonderful ambassador
for pit bull mixes. Though slow to mature, with a higher
energy level than the others, Molly turned out to be a good, obedient
dog, blending smoothly into the family unit. Molly loved to
roughhouse with Tiger. He would return the favor to the best of
his ability given his advanced age. When Ruby felt it was too much
horseplay, she put an end to it, pronto. Ultimately, Molly respected
and was drawn to Ruby. They were very close, sleeping together a
lot. They fit together like pieces of a puzzle. Molly can still learn much
from Ruby.
As for the couple who was going to help us find a home for
Molly, neither hide nor hair has been seen of them. They even quit
the obedience school. Next time: Meet the final two

Okay, so she was cute! But adopting her was out of the question.

Okay, so she was cute! But adopting her was out of the question.

Another lost soul finds a home......OURS! Molly grew up strong, sweet, beautiful and obedient

Another lost soul finds a home……OURS! Molly grew up strong, sweet, beautiful and obedient